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My mom just had two hospital stays within one week due to AFIB and then a reaction to one of the medications. She is 92, but before this happened we have had nothing that showed her near death even with the AFIB issue. Her dad lived to 100 and mother 97. She had been using her treadmill and glider before this event so absolutely no plans for an imminent death. Most of the doctors wanting the DNR were understanding, but then we had the doctor of death come in and intimidate the crap out of her in front of myself, her POA, and my son and sister. No matter how I tried to defuse her tactics, she literally scared my mom out of her wits! She told her, “you know we break bones with CPR,” then we can ventilate her which wouldn’t even be something necessary and I said no you won’t. She was a maniac. The next day my mom was like she accepted her death and I couldn’t get her out of there fast enough! Now she is walking again and back to her old self. Just trying to gain her strength. I have reported this resident doctor to everyone and luckily my mom’s doctor is training this monster and I told him what happened in the hospital. They asked why we went against AMA. They wanted to put her in a nursing home with PT, yeah right! This killed my 100 year old grandpa in 1999 when he was supposed to get PT after being hospitalized. We caught them neglecting him over and over again as we were vigilant going there everyday. He died with pneumonia in under 3 weeks. After covid, no one in their right mind would put their family in a nursing home unless you have vetted it and will be there constantly. I am caring for her and can guarantee she will not be neglected, abused and will be fed healthy food.

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Me Mcc's avatar

Thank you, Dr. Coleman - I always take heart from knowing that you are out there and looking at the big picture.

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